Know a child that’s stressed? It happens to everyone. Even me and my friends here in Kaleidoscope Garden. But that doesn’t stop us from trying to keep things as stress-free as possible. How do we do it? Here are a few tips for you to try to help prevent stress in the kids you know.
Keep a set routine. We do. Routines are a great way to establish a safe environment. We get up early, eat, and then play together. Establishing a routine like eating dinner at the table each night and family-time can be comforting and feel like a safe space.
Monitor TV shows and video games. We don’t watch TV or play video games in Kaleidoscope Garden but, we’ve heard that graphic visuals or stories on TV can produce anxiety. Our biggest source of anxiety around here is the mean, scary gator that shows up every now and then – but, more on him at another time.
Listen to them. Sometimes kids can feel like no one is listening and nothing they say is important. We’re constantly chatting each other up around here. Giving an ear to a child so they can share their fears, feelings, or discuss specific situations in their lives encourages them to become more open. Letting your child vent about their issues is an excellent way to de-stress.
And lastly, grab a book and read to, or with them. I know a good story to read out loud. It’s called, I’m a Different Butterfly and it’s about me, Lulu Noire.
I love this day! As a storyteller, I think it’s so important to share your story. Encourage the young writer in your life to jot down their thoughts, dreams, rhymes, the plot of a script, or the start of a memoir. Yes. I said it… a memoir. They might not have done enough yet to have a memoir, but they have ideas about life… their life. Then, you do it too – and share your writings with one another. Not only is it a good way to communicate, but you just might learn something about that young writer you didn’t know.
Lulu Noire’s Black Butterfly Tales® is a new children’s book series featuring character-building topics that support a healthy development of social skills and interaction in children 4 to 8 years old. Each story reflects and shares values, promotes ethical decision making while inspiring and encouraging children to be their best selves. I’m a Different Butterfly, available on Amazon, is the first book from the Lulu Noire’s Black Butterfly Tales® series.
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Lulu Noire’s Black Butterfly Tales® are friendship-focused, character-building narratives. The stories are created with young children in mind, as are the drawings for these picture books. Our illustrator, Tami Boyce, is a natural, sketches with ease, and portrays the Kaleidoscope Garden adventures one spread at a time. Here’s a “behind the tales” look at a few of her fun sketched pages from the 1st book of the series, I’m a Different Butterfly.